How to Stay Tacticool #15 – Why I Wrote a Kids’ Book About Safety

Anthony Karpanos

Anthony Karpanos

Helping mining, construction & venue organisations build safety that works in the field | Founding Director, Soteria 360 | 25+ yrs law enforcement & WHS | Author | Speaker

July 21, 2025

After 25+ years in law enforcement, national operations, and major event safety, there’s one thing I know for sure:

Most people freeze in a crisis because they were never taught what danger looks like before it hits.

We run drills for fire, for lockdowns, for evacuations. But what about the everyday moments? The stranger who lingers a little too long. The gut feeling that something’s off. The moment a child senses discomfort but doesn’t have the words or the confidence to act.

I’ve seen adults stall because their instincts were dulled by years of politeness, fear of overreacting, or not wanting to make a scene. That hesitation costs time. And in critical moments, time is everything.

That’s why I started teaching my two daughters about situational awareness early, at home, at school, out in public. Not in a way that makes them anxious. Not with paranoia. Just calm, clear conversations about how to notice things, speak up, and stay in control.

I didn’t want their first lesson in boundaries to come from a bad experience. I wanted it to come from me.

That’s what led me to write Operation: Tacticool Sisters. It’s not a security manual. It’s a kids’ story—grounded in real-world tactics. Simple missions, real safety habits, and the kind of confidence that sticks.

Not to scare kids. To prepare them. Because when you raise awareness early, you raise stronger, calmer, and more capable humans.

What is Operation: Tacticool Sisters?

It’s a short, illustrated Kid/Parent guide for kids aged 4–10. Each chapter follows two sisters as they go on “missions” based on real safety lessons I’ve taught my own girls and the same principles I’ve used on the job for over two decades.

✅ Spotting unsafe behaviour ✅ Recognising body clues and gut instinct ✅ Knowing what to do when something feels off ✅ Choosing safe adults ✅ Helping friends in trouble ✅ Setting boundaries and using your voice.

🛒 Check it out here

There’s no fear. No overprotective tone. Just straight-up tactics for young minds, told through story. It’s the same mindset I bring to venue safety planning – calm, proactive, and grounded in real-world behaviour.

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Why does this matter?

Because safety training shouldn’t start after something happens.

As adults, we drill emergency procedures, threat detection, and evacuation plans. But what about teaching our kids how to read a room? Or how to speak up when something feels wrong?

Situational awareness is a life skill, whether you’re managing a 50,000‑person event or walking to school.

I’ve trained teams under pressure, de-escalated real threats, and built crowd safety frameworks from the ground up. But nothing has been more important -or personal than teaching my daughters how to stay calm, confident, and aware.

What does this have to do with you?

Whether you’re:

  • A parent
  • A teacher
  • A safety leader
  • Or someone who gives a damn about kids growing up strong and switched on…

This is how we shift the culture. Not by reacting to bad news but by teaching the good habits first.

Tacticool Tip of the Week

Awareness starts young – If we don’t teach kids to trust their gut, the world will teach them to ignore it.

Boundaries save lives – “No” is a safety word. So is “stop.” So is “I need help.”

Confidence isn’t loud – It’s calm, clear, and trained.

Good instincts beat good intentions – Whether you’re 6 or 60.

Final Word:

I didn’t write this book to be clever. I wrote it because the lessons we teach at home shape how we respond under pressure.

Operation: Tacticool Sisters is for anyone raising, teaching, or mentoring the next generation of confident, kind, and situationally aware kids.

🛒 Grab a copy – 📚 Share it with someone raising tacticool kids.

Check out Instagram – @tacticoolsisters

Let’s give them the tools now – before they need them.

Call-to-Action & Next Steps

When was the last time you taught a child how to recognise when something feels off?

Have you shown them how to say “no” without apology? Do they know who their safe adults are without guessing? Can they spot when a friend needs help? Have you ever practiced these skills, calmly, before there was a problem?

If any of those questions made you pause, now’s the time to start.

We train adults to stay situationally aware. Why not give kids the same chance, at their level, in their language?

Got a story about a time you wished someone had spoken up sooner, or a proud moment where a child did? Drop it in the comments. Real examples teach better than theory ever will.

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Connect with me on LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/anthony-karpanos-088692246

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